Well it's been a fairly exciting and fairly boring couple of weeks. Such is life! We've been sick, super busy, stressed and relaxed! Thank goodness it's March!
To be completely honest there hasn't been a lot of spankings going on. Between being busy, gone on a trip, not feeling great, it just hasn't happened. AND I HATE IT! However, I am also happy. Confused? Yup, me too!
There was a couple times that Popeye called me on some sass, among other things and did what I want. He went to stop it and immediately spank it out of me. What did I do? I made excuses and argued my way out of that spanking. It's amazing how things can change and progress in a day or two...let's just say I don't see that happening again.
This past Friday, we had an unexpected surprise. A friend called and wanted our kids to come stay the night, they were doing a fun kids night. So Popeye and I decided to take advantage and use our few hours of freedom to not only de-stress from possibly the most stressful week ever, but also to jump start us if you will, back into what we both desire and need.
Oh it was a great night! As soon as we got home from dropping the kids off he was Dominant. Oh how I love when he embraces his dominance. He told me to shower, stay naked and clean the living room. He sat on the couch, watched me clean, gave a few orders, and then had his way with me. It was beyond great, and so so needed!
Something about this night changed us. We were on the fence with DD, back and forth before this. But, now it's Sunday night and I've been submissive and he's been dominant all weekend and it's been wonderful!
I didn't get another spanking this weekend. I've really worked hard to be submissive, not so much to avoid a spanking, but because I am trying to show him that I do want this, and hoping that by my being submissive it will help him to be more consistent with his dominance. I really do love pleasing him with my submission.
Today, has been a great day. We had a relaxing day at home, but got a lot done. By this evening I was feeling great, loving where we were with "us", but needing more. It's been a while since I've had a good hard spanking and I was just needing one. I had been reading some blogs (I actually read them more often then you would think, but don't always comment if the post is more than a few days old. Really need to read more frequently). Anyway, I just happened to read a post from Es May today (hope you don't mind me linking to your blog - and I hope it linked ok..first link!) Es May talked about asking for a spanking. It's funny how sometimes you read things just as you need to. I read her blog a couple times and after pondering it for a couple hours I did it.
I told Popeye, that I loved where we were, and I was in no way trying to tell him how to dominate, but I was starting to get antsy and I would love a good maintenance session tonight. He was very receptive, and about an hour later I got a great one. It wasn't too much, or too hard, but it was just what I was needing. Then as is usually the case, there was some intimate fun after, and the rest of the evening was just peaceful and right.
Our open communication is improving, he is starting to contribute more, and he embraces his role of dominance. Today yielded two new rules. They are - No more coats on the table (I am bad about taking my coat off and throwing it on our table). And, taking better care of the clothes in our bedroom. Our hamper is small, so he's decided when it's full it can be emptied in the laundry room rather than piled next to it. Can you tell Popeye is a bit of a clean freak? Yeah, just a little!
There was also something I asked for this week. I asked Popeye to not ask if I want sex, but just to do and take this week. Hoping this will continue on past the week, but wanted to start with a week for him to realize he's got this, and I am his and that includes his for the taking when he pleases.
I am really excited for where we are, and really looking forward to where we are going. Not only did we "spring" our clocks forward today, but we really sprung our DD life forward as well!